@cyb3rm0shp1t@monkey Hi my name is Ebony Dark'ness Dementia Raven Way and I have ebony black hair (that's how i got my name) with purple streaks and red tips that reaches my mid back and icy blue eyes like limpid tears and a lot of people tell me I look like Amy Lee (AN: if u don't know who she is get da hell out of here!).
this has been haunting me for whatever reason so i feel the need to clarify that the scary part was not him becoming a man inherently but it was going from seeing a guy who was very genderqueer and even lesbian with it to (sort of abruptly from my perspective) a (gay!!) Man who was Performing Masculinity
(coping) the reason i get misgendered so much at work is because the worker (prototypically masculine) is already feminized by the service industry so customers default back to the masculine prototype