One insidious tactic cis people use to attack trans people is conflating trans people recreating happiness as doing cisheteronormativity. While there's a debate about some things trans people do cis people will accuse you of cisheteronormativity for like wanting a happy family or the ability to give birth or something.

@casinofem i don't think i've seen cis people doing this, mostly just too-online trans people, but maybe im just not in enough radqueer spaces

@casinofem honestly the family as an institution is not really separable from patriarchy/cisheteronormativity