@perplestuff i get into stupid arguments with friends bc i think most people are competent enough to not be told what to do. keyword is most. i think its more common for people act stupid than to be truly stupid. in my eyes being truly stupid is someone who refuses to learn. people who have an intellectual disability like MR, or DS so long as they try to be as competent and intelligent as they can be arent stupid even if they arent intelligent in my mind. people are fine enough in most circumstances.