it's actually absurdly easy to get laid/get gfs if you're t4t and have like the slightest amount of rizz -- pick two of the following: being attractive, having style, taking care of yourself, have your shit together better than most transfems, good personality, engaging interests, assertive and/or dominant/a top -- but the problem is that if you're too much of a catch eventually you realize that a lot of trannies have nothing going on and are just kind of codependent horny and/or yearny because we don't have much to look forward to in life, especially these past few years, and are all kind of biding our time in various ways spiraling off wallowing in degeneracy and mental illness. being dragged down into that kinda sucks; there's more important things to do in life than have shallow relationships or casual sex (like drugs, creating art, compounding the golden elixir to attain eternal life, etc.)
however the other problem is that transfems are the hottest women and the only demographic that generally has something approaching a sovl because sovl is formed out of struggle and suffering, and there's not really any other demographic that is worth loving and making community with, and unfortunately we live in a society

where you have to interact with other humans in order to survive