theres a compulsory masculinastion that applies with all misogyny and especially lesbophobia & transmisogyny ofcourse. But this is often framed as a simple aesthetic rejection like "they dont want u to be slay and girlypop". it's more along the lines of not being Taken Seriously and the increased expectation of Adulthood for women. So I think many trans women adopt a sort of ultra seriousness in community to counter autoinfantilism as a result in a way that's alienating along similar vectors to Workplace Culture. we should be allowed to girl out more when we're doing community stuff.