trauma is relational, healing that has to also be relational. bc when we are hurt we have a strong need to have that pain recognized and acknowledged and not dismissed. if we have a safe person to express how we are feeling hurt to, who can see and validate that, then that meets that need.

if we DON'T have that, we still have the need. and most often we seek to meet that need by SHOWING people just how hurt we are with our behavior or words. which often looks like lashing out! which like. doesn't help anyone! it just compounds relational harm.

RE: https://social.xenofem.me/objects/eb2e7542-5dce-4125-b715-e24558c0090b

@angeliclayer @Alsvid @YKantRachelRead we should be allowed to kill people who do this

spotted in the wild

if i was brave i would say the evil that defines men but idk if im that brave

more and more people around me are recognizing how shitty masculinity actually is , the evil that's expected of men . good

@winter @estelle you can make a rock nice and smooth and round silly we've been doing it for like 10000 years

@georgia drag

WHAT? OUTRAGEOUS! THIS IS A TRAVES—uhhhhh a SOMETHING ELSE

i go genius mode in the sheets

https://youtube.com/wa... i like these

sometimes i think about the japanese guy who makes "unmotivated wood" . theyre doing that to me

the pineal gland is the clit of the mind
- René Descartes

>transbian polymath monastery
>gaccgirl phalanstery
>haibane renmei but for broken transsexual women (okay but...)
>another crypto-settlerist concept of pastoral communal living
u gotta get more nomadic with it for dog sake, dream big and weird. fleet of houseboat-converted lifeboats. outposts on offshore platforms. literally living in a cave sometimes. temporary autonomous zone in a liberated psychward. erdos lifestyle but for weirdo mystic girlpriestess. fuck it traveller caravans why not (oppression-maxxing).

guy explaining what a potlatch is: it's giving

@patchuun @corpsedoll @hayley i only care a little bit about the cringe factor mostly i dont like it because it feels like more newspeak unwords . nobody wants to refer to anything directly and it pisses me off