Trying to remind myself of the reasons I kick ass, which can be hard because it's also largely a list of things that often annoy the crap out of others:

-I have a strong sense of justice and try to live consistent with my values, and usually resist peer pressure wrt morality or political principle
-I work hard to expand my understanding of politics and history
-I'm a good vegan cook
-I have great taste in music (very debatable, but don't care)
-I'm a good ttrpg gm
-I'm a great cat mom

-People are usually shocked to find out how good of a (nonfiction) writer I am compared to how bumbling and inarticulate I usually am in conversation
-I'm told I have a calming presence, but I also have big emotions others usually don't want to see and that I keep hidden most of the time