figuring out shit about myself that i need to work on kinda night ig

a lot of it is that on some level ive been sorting my fellow trans women into “the good ones” and “the bad ones”

ig i kinda do this with other groups of people but i dont think its good

@lz I sort trans women into "Stfu" or "My Friend Yay" or "Miscellaneous" do you think this is a good system or do I also need to work on that

@sierra i mean i think the problem wasnt that i hust didnt like them so much as i was like “your gender presentation is bad”

@sierra also like, im one to talk when i boymode. thse girls might have atrocious taste but at least theyre trying something

@lz genius: sort them into “I don’t like you because your gender presentation is bad” … yol thank me later

@sierra and theres also the issue of im miserable so i get mad at others who are having fun with it

@lz @sierra it's a tough thing to get over honestly. I get bitter over not being able to present at all due to brainworms and muh job. But idk life's too short to hate. Not that I follow that advice but it's good advice

@lz dark mode Lizzie activate

@Jazzcraft this seems fair yeah. a lot of people i dont like for the better (albeit still vibes) reasons are potentially a big problem