it all comes dkwn to a class issue, really. jf me and my family were "higher class" (makes fucking bank) I'd be able to just. ask them for some money to live in my own place and get a nicer atmosphere for a while (which is lowkey what I fuckin need to chill more effectively) that wouldn't be nearly as big of a problem for them. like I could just have some time to chill the fuck out and find myself on my own.